Divorce at Wife's Request - A Case
Study
A
wife is not happy with her marriage
and desires separation. Efforts at reconciliation fail. But the
husband refuses to divorce her and the wife files a petition to a
Shariah Court for annulment of her marriage. The Court fails to grant
her request for over a year on the plea that they have not received any
response from the husband to the notices they sent him. The husband in
the meantime marries another woman, but the wife cannot seek another
husband as she is neither divorced by her present husband, nor has the
Shariah Court ordered annulment of her marriage.
Now, in this scenario, the questions that arise for consideration here
are:
1. Is it not a clear case of injustice to the wife?
2. If yes, then does Islam permit or tolerate such injustice?
3. Does it (Islam) give the husband the authority to refuse divorce?
4. Is the Shariah Court justified in prolonging the matter indefinitely?
5. What should the Court have done, in the circumstances, in the
interest of justice?
The case cited is not a product of fiction. It is a true life story.
The events mentioned
are
exactly as those happened. I'm making this clarification lest anyone
should
dismiss it all as being merely hypothetical.
The first
question put up for discussion is whether it isn't a clear case of
injustice against
the wife. Yes, it is! And I'm sure, none will say it isn't.
Even by common
sense, if a husband has the right of unilateral decision to legally
separate
from his wife, the wife too ought to have the same right. Marriage is a
mutually approved contract between two persons. It can subsist only at
the
simultaneous pleasure of both the parties. A system that virtually says
that a wife can
remain a wife only at the sweet pleasure of her husband and gives no
importance
at all to the wife's pleasure, is undoubtedly an unjust system. And any
pretension to being a just system vanishes into thin air, the moment
the system
helplessly watches the husband marry another woman while he effectively
prevents
his first wife to marry another man.
No wonder then
that such a social system is condemned by other social systems as being
retrogressive.
I shall now deal with the 2nd
question posed,
viz., whether Islam allows or tolerates injustice of the kind meted out
to
the wife in the case cited.
Qur'aanic Verse
3.18 informs us that Allah maintains His creation with justice. In
verse 4.58, He
commands us that when we judge, we should judge with justice. He
exhorts us that
hatred of any people should not incite us to act unequitably with them
(5.8). He
informs us that His Word has been accomplished in truth and in justice
(6.115).
He urges us that we should give full measure and weight with justice
(6.152). The
same verse also urges us that when we speak, we speak justly, even if
it
be against a relative. Allah asks the Prophet (peace and Allah's
blessings be
upon him) to tell the people, "My Lord has enjoined justice" (7.59).
And, finally, verse 49.9 tells us, "...surely, Allah loves those who
act
equitably."
It may thus be seen that Islam does neither allow, nor tolerate, the
injustice meted out
to the wife in
the case being analyzed here. In fact, Islam tolerates no injustice
whatsoever, anywhere!
Herein above, I hope, I have succeeded in producing evidence to the
effect that,
1. by logic and
commonsense, the wife, in the case under our consideration, is no doubt
subjected
to gross injustices, and,
2. Islam does
neither permit, nor tolerate, such or any other kind of injustices.
Now, I shall inshaAllah attempt to address the important 3rd
question posed,
viz., whether Islam grants the husband absolute authority to refuse to
divorce
his wife, when the wife asks for the divorce. The conclusions drawn at
1 & 2 above do substantially prove that Islam cannot give such
authority to the husband. And, by way of providing a clinching proof,
let me quote from my book,
'ISLAM & POLYGAMY':
Moreover, in
verse [Q: 4.19], Allah says, "O people who believe! It is not lawful
for you to
inherit, or take possession of, women against their will..." In the
original
Arabic text, the word used is tarithu, which literally means
'you
inherit' or
'you become heir to'. Now, one can be an heir to a woman as her son,
brother or
father. But these relationships are divinely made and therefore
natural. There is no
question of anyone choosing such a relationship against the woman's
will.
Logically therefore tarithu, in the context of the
above verse 4.19,
could only
mean to inherit as the women's husbands. The verse therefore clearly
forbids a
believer to retain any woman as his wife against her will.
Let me now deal
with the 4th & the 5th questions, viz., whether the Shariah Court
was justified
in prolonging the matter indefinitely, and how it ought to have acted
in
Qur'aanic light.
The incidence
cited here for analysis was a typical 'justice delayed is
justice denied'
case. The primary responsibility for the inordinate delay rested with
the
Court itself. It took its own time in sending notices to the husband,
that too
after repeated reminders from the wife's side. The presiding Mufti of
the Court
even got annoyed when it was suggested to him that the delay is causing
injustice
to the wife and that the Qur'aan is against any kind of injustice to
anyone.
He literally flared up, because an ordinary man on behalf of the wife
had
dared to quote the Qur'aan to him, a Mufti!! The Mufti threatened to
close
the wife's case unless the man tendered a written apology.
How could one
expect any justice from such Shariah Courts? Instead of dispensing
Islamic justice,
they serve only to malign Islam.
The lethargy
and the haughty attitude apart, was the Court justified in delaying the
matter just
because the husband wouldn't reply to their notices?
I have pointed
out above that in view of verse 4.19, no husband has
the
right to retain any woman as his wife against her wishes. This being
the case, the
Shariah Court had no alternative but to accede to the wife's request to
annul the
marriage, without much ado. It was not necessary at all for them to
wait
indefinitely for the husband to give his reply. They could have at most
given 3 months
for both the parties to explore the possibility of a rappochement. And
if
it did not happen during that period, they should have annulled the
marriage ex-parte, on the basis of the wife's request.
In the interest
of justice, it also needs to be mentioned that the cited case is from a
country where
Muslims are in a minority. Shariah Courts do function, but they are
subject to
the general judicial system of the country. Hence a party aggrieved by
a
decision of a Shariah Court could theoretically approach the country's
general
courts against the decision.
The members of
the Shariah Court appear therefore to dread the possibility of any
aggrieved party
dragging them to the general court.
But the
country's Constitution guarantees to the Muslims the observance of
their Personal
Laws as prescribed by their own religion. Therefore the Muslims of the
country as a
community should together fight their case in the country's
general courts, if
anyone challenges any decision of the Shariah Court. It's a shame that
the Shariah Courts
function under duress. It's better to wind them up rather than to carry
on
with a virtual farce of a Court.
One may say that all the right things are there in the the Qur'aan, but
lament that the
right things are not implemented. I would say that the failure at
implementation is largely because of the lack of general, first-hand
awareness of what
the Qur'aan contains. Most Muslims remain blissfully content with what
others say
the Qur'aan contains. They find no time to get the first-hand
information from the Qur'aan itself. They are also fed by vested
interests with the
false notion that the Qur'aan is beyond their comprehension.
To inculcate
general awareness that the contents of the Qur'aan are not the
prerogative of just
the privileged few, but are open to all human beings of average
intelligence, is the humble objective of my writings.
Taking this particular case for example, few people are aware of the
specific provision in the Qur'aan, by virtue of which a husband is
obliged to divorce his wife if she insists on the separation. And the
tragic fact is that even the high-profile men constituting the Shariah
Court are unaware of this provision. Had they been aware, they would
not have waited for such a long time for the husband's response. After
allowing a 3-month period for a possible reconciliation between the 2
parties, the Court would have annulled the marriage ex-parte on the
wife's petition. And had the husband in the case been aware of this
Qur'aanic provision, this case would not have arisen at all!
Mohammad Shafi
(
islam-n-interest.com)
--
Guide us to the Right Path, Allah!